"We have sent away 10 children", the daycare managers comfort the 1-year-old because he is crying

2024-03-14 22:42:00, Denoncim CNA

"We have sent away 10 children", the daycare managers comfort the

Besarda Mehmetaj says that she has a 1-year-old child, which she registered in January at nursery school number 3 "Dritë" in Kamëz.

She says that she only left the child for an hour, after the teacher called her saying that she was crying.

"I left very little time for the child to acclimatize. The schedule is 7 to 5. In the meantime, I would take the child somewhere around 8 and after an hour the teacher would pick me up and tell me that the child was crying. This has continued for more than 1 month in a row. In February, I told him that the child will stay longer, I am at work and I cannot take him and keep him at home. The teacher showed me videos where the boy played, stood and sometimes cried normally like a 1-year-old child. Then when 11 o'clock went by, the educator Xensila would pick me up and tell me to take the child because he was crying", she said.

The situation reached the point where the educator Xhensila tells her that she can leave her in the kindergarten until the end of the week, as they could not deal with her child.

"On Wednesday, when I brought the child together with my husband, I was told that this child will be kept until Friday, which is today, and then we cannot keep him anymore because this child is crying," said the informant.

Besarda says that he was forced to get a lady to keep his son, but he can't do it.

With hidden cameras, the child's mother meets the director of the "Dritë" nursery school, who tells her to keep the boy at home, as they have nothing to do with him.

The director of the institution, as if without harm, mentions 10 other children who have left, as the educators were unable to keep them.

Citizen: How did you go?

Principal: What did you do?

Citizen: Good! How are you? How will we do with Amari?

Director: With Amari?

Citizen: Yes!

Headmistress: I told you that he cries, but hold on for a while!

Citizen: Since he is crying, educators are sorry, but what are they paid for?

Headmistress: For God's sake, they worked hard!

Citizen: That they are paid with our taxes in the first place.

Director: You have the right of the whole world, but now there are children who do not stabilize at once. A few periods...

Citizen: But the child cannot be stabilized, when I go, I have the child down here at the bar, we have the bar. As soon as I get there, Jensila tells me, come on, take the child!

Headmistress: I know, I know!

Citizen: Come on, take it! I'm sorry, if I bring it, I bring it out of trouble.

Director: You are right...

Citizen: Because I'm at work, I have a loan, I'm with my problems.

Director: I told you one more thing that day, hold on for a while, a few days...!

Citizen: Here is the boy, even at the moment they took him, they put the boy inside, the boy is not crying at all.

Headmistress: She doesn't just cry down there, she cries inside, as long as she stays for a while, that is, 10 minutes passed, and then we hold her in our arms, put her in the cart, take her everywhere and she didn't rest. For a child, who cries all the time, think that it is difficult even for us in here. Not all children stay in daycare, you should know that. At least 10 have fled from here. Do you understand me? Not just your son!

Citizen: Yes!

Director: There was another girl. I entered it myself and spent 2 and a half hours with it. I haven't left anything undone on the phone, playing games, as if I was not resting alive in the world.

Citizen: We have an order from above not to keep the child.

Director: There is no order from above! Don't discuss it, he said it wrong, thoughtless, thoughtless. I love children, but a child that is not taught is difficult for us too. He was an overgrown child, we changed him in the 4 groups, he was not taught alive in the world! What else can I say? I, my obligation is to keep the children, for a child, who is not taught, what should I do?/ tvklan