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"I don't have you"!/ How parents 'destroy' children's trust

2022-09-24 19:59:00, Sociale Lira Gjika
"I don't have you"!/ How parents 'destroy'
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I don't have you anymore", says the mother or father to the child, when the little one does not obey.

 The child is simply small and cannot immediately carry out commands, or stop one action and start another.

This seemingly small, innocent threat greatly shakes the foundations of the child's trust. He, the child, begins to look at adults with fear, no matter who they are, because if you disobey, they will punish you.

They, the adults, even leave them alone, because for the child this expression, that "you don't have a wife" has the meaning of leaving alone. Thus, instead of building the mechanisms of trust and respect, we will cultivate fear and submission to adults and later, to those who have power.

With a little patience and selection of tone of voice and words, adults can cultivate in children respect and not fear of adults, or the one who is in control.

For a little patience, the model of values ??is destroyed, since the adult is the model. An impatient and nervous adult what model will offer? 

 





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