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The question mark that adds anxiety to children

2023-08-19 08:19:00, Sociale Lira Gjika

The question mark that adds anxiety to children

"Don't worry, I have him as my son." It is said by the nanny or the educator to the child's mother, to calm her down and ensure that she is taking good care of the child that has been given to her.

The nanny or educator can really hold the child well, but the expression they use does not calm the child, but rather increases the insecurity that the child feels when separated from the mother.

No matter how small the child is, when he is separated from his mother, the level of anxiety increases.

He doesn't understand why his mother takes him to daycare or nursery school. So in a foreign country for the child.

Why should a man who does not know him keep it?

These question marks provoke a state of alarm in the child. And when such careless expressions are added that may calm the mother, but only frighten the child.

When the child hears this expression, that "I love him as my child", he thinks that his mother does not love him and will leave him with this other woman.

Be careful, parents, adults, solve the words not only to calm yourself, but also not to increase the child's anxiety level. Anxiety is no joke.





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