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The child loves himself more

2023-11-13 15:28:00, Sociale Lira Gjika

The child loves himself more

A mother cannot love her child more than she loves herself. In fact, the mother's primary duty is precisely this: to insist on this truth.

All the reactions of the newborn child show that he has only one problem: his existence. Precisely, this instinct of life is so powerful in the child that it makes him "catch" to it and force the whole surrounding environment to consider and serve him.

Surprisingly, this energy, this force is overlooked; adults, parents and specialists think that they are the most important in the child's life.

Ignoring this truth (unconsciously), adults treat the child as disabled. This lack of attention to recognize and accept the child and lack of responsibility for his behavior forces the child to remain passive in his life, not to build self-confidence mechanisms. 

It is true that, at the beginning of life, he cannot perform many processes, but not because he does not have the strength to grow. He is really dependent on adults and that's not all.

The adult ensures his existence, but the child realizes the growth process himself. Despite the impositions, the child discovers the world and knows himself in his own way. He, every moment is older than the moment before.

Only with his crying without mentioning the effect of laughter, he forces the adults, even though nervous, to calm themselves down and devote themselves to the child. And yet, adults continue to insist that they raise the child.





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