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How can you tell if a friend is not being honest with you?

2022-09-07 10:24:00, Lifestyle CNA

How can you tell if a friend is not being honest with you?

I believe that each of you has experienced the bitter feeling of parting from a friend that you have considered for a long time as your best friend.

Although we are aware that not all people are honest and often we choose to trust certain people. But below you will find some of the signs that a friend is not being honest with you.

1. They call you just for interest

Të gjitha miqësitë duhet të jenë të barabarta – që do të thotë se ju duhet të merrni aq sa jepni, e gjitha bazohet në reciprocitet. Nëse po investoni më shumë sesa po fitoni, duhet të mendoni dy herë për atë që ata kërkojnë nga ju.

2. Ata tallen me ju para të tjerëve

Një “jo” definitive. Zakonisht, njerëzit e bëjnë këtë sepse ndihen keq me veten dhe duan të përdorin dikë tjetër si shpërqendrim.

3. Ndiheni keq me veten kur kaloni kohë me ta

Ndonjëherë është e vështirë të analizosh sjelljen, por emocionet tuaja nuk gënjejnë kurrë. Miqtë duhet t’ju bëjnë të ndiheni mirë, të fuqizuar dhe të ngritur. Nëse i lini ata që t’ju bëjnë të ndiheni keq, atëherë ata nuk janë miqtë tuaj.

4. Ata ju konkurrojnë.

It's okay to be a little competitive now and then, but like most things – you can have too much of a good thing. A friendship based on competitive behavior is never healthy or a true friendship.

5. They are not happy when good things happen to you

This is one of the most common telltale signs and is also based on competitive behavior. A true friend will want to see you succeed and be happy.

6. They discover your secrets

This is mean and absolutely nothing a true friend would ever do. Just walk away from this toxic friend.

7. They talk bad about others behind their backs

If they do, chances are they'll do it to you, too. They will talk bad about you, when you are not present./ CNA.al





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