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The sad story of the 17-year-old/ My father wanted to abort me, my mother left me in the "Baby House"

2023-12-24 19:33:00, Aktualitet CNA

The sad story of the 17-year-old/ My father wanted to abort me, my mother left

Denisa, a 17-year-old girl, shared her difficult life this Sunday in "There is a message for you".

She confessed that her father had not agreed to her birth and had asked her mother for an abortion, who had refused and had given birth to her.

But, due to the bad living conditions, Denisa said that they had sent her to the "Foshnje House" in Durrës, where she stayed for about a year and a half and returned to her parents again.

"Mom had to get married, she got married to the goer, she found a husband. And I was born, for which I thank him very much. When they wanted to bring me to life, because mom was pregnant, dad was sick and didn't want me to come to life. He told them to fail me. The mother with her stubbornness said that "I will not take the child away, I will keep him no matter what, with bread without bread, someone will help me".

I came to life as a blessing from my mother. My mother had to take me to bring me to life, in Tirana, so that after I was born, I would go to the "Baby's Home" in Shkozet, Durrës. For my mother not to keep me because she had neither housing, nor economic conditions, nor health, she had nothing to feed me with. They took me there, left me for a year – a year and a half.

Mom came four months after she found me, when Dad became the one who got better. There is also a photo where my mother, when she saw me, cried that day. They took pictures of him because he didn't know what I was like because he didn't have any kind of information. It was luck that I wasn't adopted either, like my sister", she said.

Denisa said that her parents had tried to do the same with her younger sister, but that they could not bring her back to the family.

"Yes, after three years, my sister was born. Even the mother said again that "I will give birth in Tirana to go back to the same 'Baby House', where the big girl was". And he said that "he will take it in three years when he turns three years old", that he had neither good economic nor health conditions. After he took his sister there, three years passed with challenges and all. Mom is diagnosed with breast cancer. With all those vicissitudes, mom had to go and have surgery, chemotherapy, radiation. And he left me with my relatives. I missed my mom a lot because I was 6 years old. I don't know what my life looked like because I was used to my mother's presence", said the 17-year-old./ CNA





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